Hello there.
I've got a question. Is it really difficult for someone to stay loyal when they are in a relationship?
Correct me if I'm wrong, but it probably took so much time just to get to know your other half on a personal level and knowing his/her likes, dislikes, personality and all that stuff. So why do you even bother being interested in another girl when you are in a relationship?

I don't get why guys, in particular, would be able to think about someone else when they're attached to another girl. They'd be going around telling their girlfriend about this girl they're eyecandying about. Be in the girlfriend's shoes for a moment. Do you really want to listen to your boyfriend showing admiration towards this girl? The girlfriend would then feel insecure about herself, and she'll be worrying about little things. Worse, she'll be stalking this poor little girl's social media, in hopes of seeing any signs of flirtation made by your boyfriend dearest. Slowly, her trust for her boyfriend wears off and shit happens. Some may say that at the end of the day, the only person he'll be thinking about is his girlfriend, so it doesn't matter if he's thinking about someone else for the rest of his hours but are you really sure? Even if you're crushing on someone, don't tell your girlfriend. Just keep it to yourself.

If you really love your other half, you wouldn't bear to cheat on them with another person, right?
Is it really that difficult to be open with your girlfriend/boyfriend?

If it was me, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where I'm thinking about my boyfriend and his well being when he's thinking about another girl and not me. And there's one more thing I can't understand. How do people get into another relationship just after breaking up? Like is it really important to be in a relationship or else you'd die of singleness??? (i just made up a word guys wow)

How can you hop to another person weeks, or even days, after you've broken up with your ex? If there's something I admire about people like you, I must applaud you being so strong willed. I was an emotional wreck after my last relationship and I swore not to be in a relationship with guys who aren't serious with me. It took me so long to change my mindset from "Why'd you break my heart" to "fuck you, you're the one who lost a diamond".

okay I guess I'm done with my rant. I just wonder why people do this, that's all.

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